John Oxlade
ThetaHealing Certificate of Science Master practitioner and teacher

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Covid-19 / Coronavirus update

covid 19 coronavirus update

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The world according to John - my Blog

How not to say Not



When you’re doing a session with a client, it can sometimes be difficult to phrase a question without using something like “Not, Can't, Don't and Won't”. There are atleast two different ways to get around this:

“No” can be a perfectly acceptable answer to a question. For instance

I resent my ex-partner

“No” you don’t, that’s fine; you don’t always have to phrase a question expecting “Yes” as the answer.

Rather than saying

I know how to live my day-to-day life not affected by other people’s negativity


I know how to live my day-to-day life WITHOUT being affected by other people’s negativity

This particular one is one of my favourite downloads!

You often have to re-word Theta’ downloads from the various books, as going from a negative belief or feeling to a positive one isn’t always as simple as putting “without” in the sentence, but with a bit of practice it becomes fairly straightforward.

So have fun working with ThetaHealing WITHOUT saying “Not”.


“The world according to John”, August 2018